Friday, 2 December 2016

πŸ‘€ Dekhneka Nazariya... Perception matters!

It is so rightly said: “Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”

It feels soo good when a person can turn your anger, anxiety, desires- that seem un-achievable, concerns etc into Happiness/Possibility when he/she comes up with a solution or a different perception, a view that is beyond how you look at the situation at that point of time.
I feel soo blessed that I had a chance to encounter such a lovely person in my life who has an answer/a better view to my concerns, making me feel good,special and wanted!

πŸ‘€ Once my best friend and I had a fight, a little misunderstanding and I said to him in anger, “I think we need a break” to this what my sweet friend said is: “Yes!!, bolo kahan chalein??”

 πŸ‘€ Once while chatting just like that casually, I said to my friend “aap 
kehte ho, ki humne aapko chane ke jhad pe bithaya hai” (this Hindi phrase is for false praise!) meaning I praise him often and more (Yes I do it because he is really good, and not false praise) to this he had an awesome reply, he said, “Aapne humko chaneke jhad pe bithaya, par you know what?? Your chaneka jhad is on the tallest building of the world”

πŸ‘€ Once while talking on phone, I was angry with him as he was going on saying “yes man, no man!” I said angrily to him “What is this 'yes man, no man'?? I am a woman!!”  To that he replied to me saying, “Who said?, You are a sweetheart, beautiful, darling!!” J ;)

πŸ‘€ Once he had called me on phone after a hectic day, but it was his weekend, I said, “You must be tired na?” to this he very smartly replied, “I can go on the whole night long, your phone won’t go out of battery(landline) and ill put my phone for charging.”

πŸ‘€ Once he gifted me and my sister a wrist watch for our birthdays (as our birthdays are very close (mine in Feb hers in March) he brought a gift for both of us),  I asked him, “so watches for us both??” to this he replied, “Yes, Gold- for your sister and 'Rose Gold' for you!” [He an awesome explanation too  he said: "a rose gold watch  rose- valentine day gift and gold-birthday gift] 
J ;)

πŸ‘€ Once while chatting I told him “close your eyes and tell me the names of faces/pictures/things you see” (it seems that when one does this, their girl friends pictures are to be seen ;)) As a reply to this, he sent me my 10 plus pictures!! What a gesture to cherish!! J

πŸ‘€ And the best of all, the cherry on the cake was:
I told him, “I collected one side of the fare to come to meet you...” and he replied, “so what?? You can come and never return!!”

Not all of us can think in terms like these most of the time..Thank-You soo much my friend, for making me see things from your perspective that is soo much beyond my perception. Feel very special to have met you and known you.Looking forward to having many such opportunities, to see things your way! ;)