Holy Spirit reminder on haughty 👀 and tongue. (22nd September 2026)

Received verses similar to each other., along with similar pictures.

In a way like the Holy is reminding this teaching.

'Common' but the "Uncommon"

Some of us have such common names.. every 4th person has the same as yours..One of my friend has a name that is such.. I used to find 'the name' in maths sums while I was in school and in college, as soon as 'the name' came up, though I didn't like maths much, it brought a smile on my face.. not only in maths also in english grammar my friends name showed prominence.. looks like the text book authors favourite name that  it was!! once in office I also found 'the name' in the list of colleagues to mail to!!  And that brought lil smile then too... not only school , college or office but even 'the name' is in the holy bible too.. also the authors of great books have 'the name' on it, also the names of characters inside the novel! And the name of every 4th person in the crowd.. though 'the name' is soo common, really to tell you, I will never find another same person as the one I know with the name 'the name'.. I'm happy that this person is my friend and congratulations dear friend to be the 'common' but the "uncommon"!! God bless You!

👀 Dekhneka Nazariya... Perception matters!

It is so rightly said: “Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.”

It feels soo good when a person can turn your anger, anxiety, desires- that seem un-achievable, concerns etc into Happiness/Possibility when he/she comes up with a solution or a different perception, a view that is beyond how you look at the situation at that point of time.

I feel soo blessed that I had a chance to encounter such a lovely person in my life who has an answer/a better view to my concerns, making me feel good,special and wanted!

👀 Once my best friend and I had a fight, a little misunderstanding and I said to him in anger, “I think we need a break” to this what my sweet friend said is: “Yes!!, bolo kahan chalein??”

 👀 Once while chatting just like that casually, I said to my friend “aap 

kehte ho, ki humne aapko chane ke jhad pe bithaya hai” (this Hindi phrase is for false praise!) meaning I praise him often and more (Yes I do it because he is really good, and not false praise) to this he had an awesome reply, he said, “Aapne humko chaneke jhad pe bithaya, par you know what?? Your chaneka jhad is on the tallest building of the world”

👀 Once while talking on phone, I was angry with him as he was going on saying “yes man, no man!” I said angrily to him “What is this 'yes man, no man'?? I am a woman!!”  To that he replied to me saying, “Who said?, You are a sweetheart, beautiful, darling!!” J ;)

👀 Once he had called me on phone after a hectic day, but it was his weekend, I said, “You must be tired na?” to this he very smartly replied, “I can go on the whole night long, your phone won’t go out of battery(landline) and ill put my phone for charging.”

👀 Once he gifted me and my sister a wrist watch for our birthdays (as our birthdays are very close (mine in Feb hers in March) he brought a gift for both of us),  I asked him, “so watches for us both??” to this he replied, “Yes, Gold- for your sister and 'Rose Gold' for you!” [He an awesome explanation too  he said: "a rose gold watch  rose- valentine day gift and gold-birthday gift] J ;)

👀 Once while chatting I told him “close your eyes and tell me the names of faces/pictures/things you see” (it seems that when one does this, their girl friends pictures are to be seen ;)) As a reply to this, he sent me my 10 plus pictures!! What a gesture to cherish!! J

👀 And the best of all, the cherry on the cake was:

I told him, “I collected one side of the fare to come to meet you...” and he replied, “so what?? You can come and never return!!”

Not all of us can think in terms like these most of the time..Thank-You soo much my friend, for making me see things from your perspective that is soo much beyond my perception. Feel very special to have met you and known you.Looking forward to having many such opportunities, to see things your way! ;)

Dear Daddy

Dear Daddy,

                  You have always spread the cheer, wishing all whom you met, the greetings for the day, and to me “Good Morning” when I woke up in the mornings and as a kid I didn’t reply you the same as I was not so happy to wake up and go to school! (I regret it now) and when any guests came, you made them feel comfortable and at home..If while cooking some dish, some of its ingredients were missing, you never hesitated to step out and get it from any corner of the world and at any time, hats off to your enthusiasm, and the love for all of us. Although you were from a different religion yet never complained even little about anything, always took part with body, mind and soul in all the festivities and prayers. 

                 At times I know I have been hard and demanding, been rude, fought with you for silly things, yet you just let it all go with a smile. You scolded us at times but never beat, I thank you a ton for being there for me, by my side always. You always kept yourself as last priority, thought and still think of others well being first.

                I remember how neat and clean you used to make me ready for school when I was in primary, and you used to put incense when I used to have head bath.

                  I also remember the royal mango and ice-cream treats on summer nights on our terrace.. They were of soo much joy!  

How you used to feed me when I was small, last few spoons were left and I didn't want to eat,  how skillfully you made a story and fed me.. Not just then but even in recent times when I used to get late to school/college you fed me before I left home. 

                I remember how much pain you have taken, while I was in college, tuition was far with odd timings, yet daily for 2 years you took me to them without complaining, though you were still working, you took time from office and came to pick and drop me whenever necessary. My friends who saw you do it for me, used to say to me, "so lucky you are, truly your daddy's princess!" Not just that, whenever I felt bored at home in holidays, you took me for a ride on our two-wheeler.

                You have never thought of your own happiness as 1^st at anytime in your life, always think of others happiness 1st.. I remember how you went to the fish market to buy fish, just because we liked to eat..You never thought that it's smell while cooking might irritate you or anything like that as you don't eat it.. You taught me maths, as I was not that great at it.. Also in college taught me Hindi (as u know how dedicated the staff is in colleges, specially PU colleges) and we still remember some stories and cherish those learning experiences.

               You always thought of our comfort, took us in an hired car for feasts and holiday trips..It was soo sweet of you to make us feel soo good all the time.

I don't know what I can do to tell you how grateful I am to You, you are the best..I haven't met any other perfect person as you, so disciplined and good. I always used to say to you, how and from where you bring all the energy from, your voice was soo clear and commanding, I always said "talk softly.. why are you screaming!!", little did I know then that You would stop it all soo suddenly..I cannot see you this weak and weary, Dad, I want you to get strong and be the same and strong as before. 

It is soo rightly said that "Dad is a Daughters First Love and Hero".. Dad you have always been my sweetest..You are the best dad in the whole world, I am proud to be your daughter, I Love you a lot..

Splendid Days!

It is so rightly said: “Kadhi kadhi watta Athvani phure aayushya jagayala J , pan kadhi kadhi hyach Atvani phure se nahi L”

We all have special days in our lives with special people, which we cherish and never want to forget.. At times, just thinking about them, brings a smile and we wish to relive them all again.. But it's not always possible.. I too had such special days with one of my best friends..

   Hug Day

It is said that hugging makes one healthier.. Once I was massaging my friends head, and that night he was to leave to his work place after a long holiday, and after I had finished massaging, we hugged each other wishing good luck.. Don't know if this one made us healthier, but happier for sure..Thus celebrating hug day!

   Kiss Day

My friend gave me a gift, gift that I had asked for ;) , and I was soo happy that I kissed him thank you, on his cheek, celebrating the kiss day!

   Rose Day

My friend sent me what’s app roses daily, while he wished me good morning and good day, and the feeling of receiving those roses daily, even though it was just in a message , it definitely made my day! Celebrating the Rose Day!

   Dance Day

My friend and I, we wore matching clothes, and we partner danced as well as group danced, in many weddings.. This being one of the best ways to celebrate someone’s best day, as well as a fun activity that we enjoyed doing together, celebrating the dance day!

   Chocolate Day

Once my friend kept a particular chocolate for a long time with him preserving it for me, as he liked it and wanted me to taste it, the chocolate had a special message in every chocolate piece inside, it was more special as the message you got was random and lovely and made You feel Good!, It made me feel soo nice, that he kept it safe just so that I can taste and have a feel of it.. Thus celebrating chocolate day!

   Promise Day

My friend and I promised each other saying “I (our names), promise to take a picture with you, either selfie or tell someone to click, with only the two of us in the picture, whenever and wherever we meet..” ;) Isn’t that amazing! :D Thus celebrating the Promise day!

   Dream Day

I have seen my friend in many of my dreams, Not sure if I remember them all as and when I see, but if I do, we always discuss about the scenes in the dream at length, celebrating the dream day!

   Vision Day

Once I had an activity in college, I had liked it, in which we had to think we were 10 years ahead of time and think freely whatever came in mind, so I made my friend do the same activity, and we both saw each other in this vision 10 years ahead of time, Thus celebrating vision day, looking forward to meet each other soon.. J

In recent times, my friend shifted to another continent, and many of these days are not possible to celebrate frequently.. I miss them all.. I had never thought anyone would make me feel/live such splendiferous days and had thought that such days are only possible and seen in stories/reel life, but no, it can be possible in real life too, my friend made me realize this, once again proving me wrong, But truly speaking, It felt good to be proved wrong.. Thanks my Friend for making me live, have a feel these special days, celebrating these days with me and giving me the memory of soo many splendid days, looking forward to having many more together soon.. :) 

Unlike poles attract!

Scientifically speaking the unlike poles of the magnet attract because one pole pushes and other attracts..

Applying the same logic to humans, will this same theory be applicable??

Well yes, it does apply, may be rarely, but it surely does...

Likes cold coffee, I like hot tea!

     My friend likes cold coffee, even if it's hot initially, she ensures to make it cold and then have, while I on the other hand like hot tea, if it gets cold I can't even drink, while she, enjoys it more when it's cold!!

I like silence, she dislikes it!  

    Whenever possible, I like quiet surroundings, I don't like it with noisy people around ending up getting irritated, while she on the other hand, enjoys when it's noisy around, and else feels bore!!      

I like dal, she can't digest it!                                       

    Well, this one made me stunned, as, I can have dal daily, while she avoids it, has only sometimes!! OMG was my 1st reaction when she told me this!

Soups make her feel hungry, make me full!

    Yes, soups make her more hungry, making me feel full, in fact it's a trick why one has soups before meals it is because, it makes the tummy little full with less calories, then you end up eating less, it's extremely opposite in her case!!      

Sugar items make her hungry, me full!!

      Uff, what can I say, my tummy is something different I guess, if I have sweet before any food time, it makes me feel full and I cannot have much food after that, while the case is different with my friend, it makes her feel hungry it Seems :o

How??  :/

I like love stories, she doesn’t!!

      Be it reading novels, watching serials or movies, I Like love stories, with no much action, whereas she, uff, only likes action, for love stories she gets bugged up and bored!!

She can sleep when there is sound around, I can't!

     If there is no one around or no sound, my friend cannot sleep, if there is sound she falls asleep soon, on the other hand I like it silent when I want good sleep!

She's quite adventurous, while I am not!

     she just does it, let it be anything, no further thought on anything, feel like doing then just do it, while I plan, then decide whether to do something or not giving it a thought 10 times! :p

She can talk non-stop, I can't!

    If she starts speaking, she continues to do so, for long time, without getting tired! While I am not at all like her.. :)

I like to wear ironed clothes, she doesn’t

     I like to wear ironed clothes while she on the other hand enjoys wearing clothes as they are after wash.. :/

She likes off colors, I like almost all!

     If something is in one of her favorite off color like brown, cream she likes it a lot, if in different colors, she just doesn't like it, while I like all colors, lighter shades but of all!!

She does her tasks in FIFO fashion, me based on priority!

       Any task that she feels like doing she just does it, as and when she feels like doing, while I do the tasks by first analyzing and prioritizing!

I like silent songs, she doesn’t

    Silent songs have their own meaning, I tend to relate then to my life, where as she just takes the literal meaning of them!!

Though we are Soo different, we are just unlike each other but still, we get along so well that we became the best of friends, I never thought this could be possible, but it did, once again proving me wrong!!

We are unlike but still like each other!! :)

Kismat Konnection :)

Kismat Konnection.. (KK)

Can it be possible that someone whom You Love, but is miles and seas away from You-physically, but still has the same type of feeling or is undergoing similar circumstances around him/her?

In my opinion nah!! It’s not possible; in fact it is totally impossible as to have similar feelings at almost the same time when you are distances apart.

But I was proved wrong when I communicated with my beloved friend about it, and that was when I got to know, he feels the same at many times as I do!

v Fever!

It once so happened that I got fever suddenly one day, I had to go to the doctor and take an injection, it was a viral one, now, I can’t get the connection as to how these viruses managed to travel miles away, near my beloved friend and he too, on the same day had got fever!! And when we spoke to each other about it we both were amazed!!

v In front of the computer!

One day, I had both my lab exams, the same day, this usually doesn’t happen, the faculty make sure we have it on different days, as,  one lab itself is 3 hours long, but due to insufficiency of days to complete labs, and many holidays, we had both lab exams on the same day! So I was in front of the computer in the lab from 10am to 5pm, uff.. and I came home, I had found some bug in my code, due to which I was unable to execute my program correctly, it took me almost 4 hours to debug that one, once again I was in front of P.C from 6pm to 11 pm, and I didn’t get any message from my friend, so I pinged him to ask about his where abouts.. And while conversing with my sweet friend, got to know that he too was in front of P.C for some office work, since morning that day!! What name do I give this coincidence? Another KK indeed!

v He stressed, I stressed!

It was the time of final exams in December, and I was totally exhausted, preparing for them and answering them! And miles away my friend was busy trying to complete some work here and there at his office, as he had to leave for a long holiday to other land, so then while we conversed at the end of those long days, both replied “yes, stressed!”!!

v Saw the TV serial I wanted him to see!

There were basically 2 TV serials of the serials that I watched, that reminded me of my sweet friend and once while I watched, I just said to myself, “wish he too watches this episode and to my astonishment, I got a message from my friend in the evening, saying, “watching so and so serial”, I was really stunned as to who had whispered in his ears that I wanted him to watch that particular episode!

v  He diets and people ask me if I am dieting!

My sweet friend wanted to reduce weight and extra calories to remain fit and fine.., and so with his determination he started dieting and exercising with full interest and dedication on a regular basis…and lost weight too, and people here around me kept asking me if I am dieting/maintaining, looking at me and noticing that I too had lost weight! But how and what do I explain them about the great KK that my friend and I share?.. A real wonder indeed!!

v Wanted him to call me as my Wi-Fi was down..

I had never thought that my Wi-Fi connection could go down!! As it worked pretty well since we installed one, and suddenly one day, not just Wi-Fi, even net was not working on P.C., I wanted to send a message across,  via FB or at least a mail as I didn’t have my mobile data pack too, to send via cell, and that was the day when I wanted to wish my sweet friend a bon voyage, as he was going to some other land and the flight duration was 20 odd hours, i.e. almost a day long, and to my unpleasant surprise, I had no way to send him my message across, OMG was my 1^st reaction, I was unable to contact him, so I thought of sending a normal message from my sim service provider, but alas I didn’t get a reply soon as he usually replies, so I was thinking if he did receive my message or not! All I could do is wait and only wait.. I just wished heart of heart that he calls me, and to my sweet surprise, just before his flight could take off, he called me, and I wished him, but I didn’t tell him of the Wi-Fi problem , though measures were being taken to repair the down Wi-Fi, it was of little or no use.. My sweet friend reached safely to his destination; still my Wi-Fi had a problem! And once again I wished he calls me, and and he really did call, and that was when I told him about it. As it was exam month, he thought I was busy with studies so I didn’t contact him, but this was the real reason and I just wished in my heart that he calls and he did, a wonderful KK indeed!

v Exact matching by default!!

It so happened that my sweet friend and me, were supposed to meet each other at a wedding, and we had not discussed much about what we would be wearing for the wedding, and to our pleasant surprise, we found each other’s attire matching! I wore a Anarkali pink and white and he too wore the same pink color tie and white shirt.. J It was a total match, it happened by default, but seemed as though planned, sometimes well planned ones also don’t match, but our KK was soo strong that it matched that perfect!

v Climate match- there drizzles, here cloudy!

It once so happened that all of a sudden, though not a season to rain, it was drizzling miles away where my sweet friend stays, and here in my hometown, the climate was cloudy, like as though the towns we lived were soo very close-by, like only a few kilometers away! Where as in reality we live 1877 kilometers away still seems to be soo close with our KK!

v Remember me and I get hiccups!

As Science says, one gets hiccups, there is a long list of medical or physiological disorders associated with hiccups, that seem to cause them..But from childhood it must be quite familiar to all of us, that if we would get hiccups, the people around would say, “someone might be remembering You!” and now, even if no one says that, by default we think- “may be really someone is remembering me”…It so happened twice that, I got hiccups and first thought was- maybe my friend just thought of me, and I pinged him right away to check if it was true.. Both the times my friend said ‘yes’, was thinking of a conversation with you, and was thinking about you! And I was stunned once again as to how can this be possible, another KK indeed!

v Travel at the same time..

It has happened many times that I used to come home from college via magic iris (A Tata vehicle), and when I messaged my sweet friend, from the magic, he too used to be in his car, travelling from his port to his office, and this has happened many times giving it the name of another KK!! J

v Allergy!

Now one may say everyone and anyone these days can have allergy, but there are some things in common about our allergies, though the type of allergy is different, in the 1^st place we both do have an allergy, secondly, about the medication, we take it with /in hot water every day and to add to it a even more detailed KK in this is that, we have allergy, but we used the medication only when needed, i.e. to subside the allergy, but on increase of the intensity of the allergy, both of us started having the medication on a daily basis since last 6 years daily, and continue it till date. J

v Trying something new on the same day!

As I said we are miles away, we could have tried new things that we never tried before in our lives, on different days, but our KK!, ended in making us try something new on the same day! Astonished about it, yes, but it also made us believe more in the KK we share!

v Eating ice-cream at the same time…

It once so happened that, I came home one summer afternoon, and had my lunch and was chatting with my dear friend. And we were deciding of meeting each other at some future point in time,

but we were uncertain as to what the schedule would be at the time that was fixed, and we just said that, “no worry, our KK is quite strong, it will take care…”, and while chatting all this, I just sent the smiley of ‘ice-cream’ indicating that I was having one, and my friend was surprised and asked me what it was, I said, “ice-cream dear” and he asked, “are you eating now??” and I replied “yes!, why?” and to this he replied “KK!!!” and I said, “OMG!”

He too was having at the same time, another KK indeed!!

v Getting the allergy problem on the same day!

We got our allergies visible/felt under certain circumstances, it was summer season, and we had unexpected showers, too long like rainy season in my hometown, and my allergy gets prominent when the climate is cold! And I had seen some of my allergy appear, and I waited to ask my friend about his allergy that day, and on me asking him, “how is your allergy today?”, I was surprised that he too had got some of his allergy that day!!! Now isn’t this another KK?? J

v Clicking our picture when I wanted one!

It once so happened that we had been on a trip, and on the way we stopped, there we took some pictures, all in groups, but I wanted one picture only with my dear friend, and I just said in my mind to myself, “what G.. I wanted one picture with you and only with you!!” and to my sweet surprise, at the very instant, he put on the front camera and took our picture, it was like as though he had heard me saying it…isn’t this soo beautiful?  Amazing in fact, our KK captured!

v Net pack getting over on the same day!

My net pack was about to get over in the 1st week of the month, being a prepaid one, and I forgotten about it, and for one day I used my data pack without having my net pack, and on realizing I soon told my friend and put off the net as all my balance was almost over, and afterwards when we chatted the next day, he told me that his net pack too had got over on the same day, usually, his pack begins on 1^st of the month and in no way gets over within the 1^st week, that was the 1^st time, and it happened so as to make us believe more in the KK which we had started acknowledging a year back!

                                                                                                         

Now realizing it’s God’s gift, a wonderful gift, just being thankful to God for making us experience this unique KK and being more vigilant to encounter some more beautiful KK’s yet to come, as they just happen, there is no prior notice to them, it is one to acknowledge and enjoy as they happen. I have found my Kismat Konnect, go ahead and find yours too… J ;)